When u get the one thatâs very special to u. will u still continue/need to have friends in opposite gender then too up to any extent and due to any reason? If yes then reason plz.
Also tell what will be ur approach for opposite gender friends u already have before getting that special one? (People u know cause of ur profession are exceptions in this question)
I am not asking about ur ideas regarding one woman man or one man woman. I m asking about extreme level so reply within that context plz.
Regards
yar its natural ...es main hamara koi amal dakhal nahi hai $..
As i said earlier in an other topic k hr aik ki jgah apni apni hoti hai.us special one ki jgah to koi b nahin ly skta chahy oposite gender friend hi kio na ho.aap ka dealing style different hi hoga.friends ki apni ahmiat hai unki apni jgah hai bohat c batain ap us special one sy b ni kr patay kisi b reason ki wja sy but friend sy kr laity hain to get guaidance ragarding ur any confusion or kuch bohat personal batain b hotin hain jo ap friend sy nahin kr skty wo ap special one sy kr rahay hotay hain. but yup regarding opposite gender friend u have to respect n give imp to ur special one.if he/she dont want u to be with that friend kisi b wja sy jo usko paraishan krti ho to apko us ka khyal rkhna chahye.but un necessarily b hr baat py ji hazori thek nahin ager ap convince kr skty hain to kr lain.but as u want to live happy life with ur special one to usko imp daini pry gi or compromise b krna pry ga.
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<br />As i said earlier in an other topic k hr aik ki jgah apni apni hoti hai.us special one ki jgah to koi b nahin ly skta chahy oposite gender friend hi kio na ho.aap ka dealing style different hi hoga.friends ki apni ahmiat hai unki apni jgah hai bohat c batain ap us special one sy b ni kr patay kisi b reason ki wja sy but friend sy kr laity hain to get guaidance ragarding ur any confusion or kuch bohat personal batain b hotin hain jo ap friend sy nahin kr skty wo ap special one sy kr rahay hotay hain. but yup regarding opposite gender friend u have to respect n give imp to ur special one.if he/she dont want u to be with that friend kisi b wja sy jo usko paraishan krti ho to apko us ka khyal rkhna chahye.but un necessarily b hr baat py ji hazori thek nahin ager ap convince kr skty hain to kr lain.but as u want to live happy life with ur special one to usko imp daini pry gi or compromise b krna pry ga.
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Agreed
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<br />As i said earlier in an other topic k hr aik ki jgah apni apni hoti hai.us special one ki jgah to koi b nahin ly skta chahy oposite gender friend hi kio na ho.aap ka dealing style different hi hoga.friends ki apni ahmiat hai unki apni jgah hai bohat c batain ap us special one sy b ni kr patay kisi b reason ki wja sy but friend sy kr laity hain to get guaidance ragarding ur any confusion or kuch bohat personal batain b hotin hain jo ap friend sy nahin kr skty wo ap special one sy kr rahay hotay hain. but yup regarding opposite gender friend u have to respect n give imp to ur special one.if he/she dont want u to be with that friend kisi b wja sy jo usko paraishan krti ho to apko us ka khyal rkhna chahye.but un necessarily b hr baat py ji hazori thek nahin ager ap convince kr skty hain to kr lain.but as u want to live happy life with ur special one to usko imp daini pry gi or compromise b krna pry ga.
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agreed with wardah bj
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<br />As i said earlier in an other topic k hr aik ki jgah apni apni hoti hai.us special one ki jgah to koi b nahin ly skta chahy oposite gender friend hi kio na ho.aap ka dealing style different hi hoga.friends ki apni ahmiat hai unki apni jgah hai bohat c batain ap us special one sy b ni kr patay kisi b reason ki wja sy but friend sy kr laity hain to get guaidance ragarding ur any confusion or kuch bohat personal batain b hotin hain jo ap friend sy nahin kr skty wo ap special one sy kr rahay hotay hain. but yup regarding opposite gender friend u have to respect n give imp to ur special one.if he/she dont want u to be with that friend kisi b wja sy jo usko paraishan krti ho to apko us ka khyal rkhna chahye.but un necessarily b hr baat py ji hazori thek nahin ager ap convince kr skty hain to kr lain.but as u want to live happy life with ur special one to usko imp daini pry gi or compromise b krna pry ga.
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agreed with sister wardah..!!
lollllllllz ye triqa b theek hai hahahah
Agreed with Namia ki Bj )
Regards.
Agreed with wardah ki baji ohh sorrie namia kia bajj P
i dont think so that if u are true in ur love and other person is also honest then u still need to have any opposite gender friend just cause u can share some things with them which u cant share with ur love.
<b>mukammal 2 hi danno pr ye tasbeeh e mohabbat hai
joe aye teesra dana yeh dori toot jati hai
mutaiyyan waqt hota hai mohabbat ki namazoon ka
adda jin ki nikal jaye qaza b choot jati hay
muhabbat ki namazoon main amamat aik ko saunpain
issay taknay usey taknay se niyaat toot jati hai
mohabbat dil ka sajda hai tauheed per qayem
nazar k shirk walon say mohabbat roth jatti hay </b>
Wardah dear as every one is agreeing with ur answer therefore u only come in my line of fire (lol)so tell me
what will be ur reaction if some one u deemed as ur lover have a female friend or wants to have one i think so tum tub yeah kahoo gi ya us say dosti rakh/ker loo ya mijh say wasta rakh loo
tab tumhara opper diyeah howa jawab khud ba khud invalid hojeayga hayna?
(appnay per aaye tu bohat si baatain bohat say asool bohat say point of view badal jattay hain as we do have different standrads for others and when same things come to us then rules to play got change suddenly)
<b>Lets go to extreem now </b>
what if u r married will u still want to have opposite gender friends and will also not mind if ur spouse also do have his/her opposite gender friends
agger aik ya dono sawal burray lagain tu bayshak jawab na dayna
but plz yeah tu bata dooo
aaj kal tumhari
saheliii kiyoun nahi araahii?
lolz
plz dont take anything serious and personal.
regards
(sorry sarfraz i edited my post after ur posting comment u may edit urs too)
yar es tarah to kasim bhai ap dosre sare pattai kat wa do gai $$ ..koi na koi to hona chaye qebatain..oh i mean apni batain share kar nai ..love one k elawa $..or do teen hon to zada acha hai..$
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<br />i dont think so that if u are true in ur love and other person is also honest then u still need to have any opposite gender friend just cause u can share some things with them which u cant share with ur love.
Yup I do agree with this, in fact I am totally against with any friendship or stuff, (opposite gender. and If there is someone with you according to me kisi aur ki zarort he mehsos nahe hoti.......
<b>mukammal 2 hi danno pr ye tasbeeh e mohabbat hai
joe aye teesra dana yeh dori toot jati hai
mutaiyyan waqt hota hai mohabbat ki namazoon ka
adda jin ki nikal jaye qaza b choot jati hay
muhabbat ki namazoon main amamat aik ko saunpain
issay taknay usey taknay se niyaat toot jati hai
mohabbat dil ka sajda hai tauheed per qayem
nazar k shirk walon say mohabbat roth jatti hay </b>
and this is one of my favorite ghazal.
@ Kasim
(appnay per aaye tu bohat si baatain bohat say asool bohat say point of view badal jattay hain as we do have different standrads for others and when same things come to us then rules to play got change suddenly)
aisy logon ko self liberty lover kehty hain.
Well i think wen u find the One.. baki frnds will loose importance.. there will be less to share and talk about with them... and aur frnds bana nay k zarurat tu nai hugi...
but still if there are a few things tht u really dont wanna tell to ur Love... for that i think koi 1 ya 2 best frnd tu hungay hi pehlay se tu woh un se share kerletay hungay..
i had been ignored by my 2 good frnds(guys).. lol as they found the rite one P and wenever i complain about their ignoring attitude so they simply say.. 'yaar tumhari bhabi k baad time hi nai milta' P SELFISHHHH but yet sincere )
Hahahah safoora, not selfish, obviously, shadi k bad buhat si routines change ho jati hain, but friends are always friends.
Dear kasim,
I am not agreed k larkian other female friends k honay py mna krti hon (agr unhain yaqeen ho k sirf friends he hain) but yay hrkat i think lrkay ziada kia krtay hain (mrdana ghairat k name pay).
Mera personal view jo k quite liberal hay n shaid ghalat bhi, k obviously, special one ki jga tu koi lay he nai skta but social communication n old friends k sath rabtay khtam krna munasib nahi lgta (waisay yay or baat hy k shadi k baad itni fursat he nahi milti k ap apnay closest friend sy bhi khud sy rabta kr paoo, ab meri sb friends bhi yehe kehti hain k selfish but waqai life itni routine main aa jati hy k kisi event ya kisi kam k liay he rabta hota hay warna tu SMS krna bhi yad nahi hota) Baqi agr special one ki khahish ho tu i think k usay ignore nai krna chahyay but special one ki khahish mri nzar main unjustified hogi. (Jb tak marriage nai ho jay tab tak koi special nahi hota, so only marriage can make someone special).
Or mera sahi wala opinion jo k hona chahyay n jis say pori dnya main sakoon aa skta hay n insan takaleef sy bach skta hay wo yay k opposite gender friendship honi he nai chahyay na shuro main na bad main sirf buhat zarori and most important kamo k liay he direct communication honi chahyay n to the point and agr is to the point communication main agr koi acha lgnay lgay tu through parents proposal and shadi ho jani chahyay.