hi alls
what u people do regarding gillay/shikway u have from others?
u share these with them?
or else?
about myself
i try my level best to tell others that they are doing this thing in wrong way (which is distrubing me)for once or twice
if they dont care then i dont bother to tell them again and again just gradually create distance between us so that na rahay banss na bajay gi bansari (na us banday say rabta rahay ga na koi sikhway gillay)
ur approaches plz
regards
Ittifaq say main bhi kuch yunhi karta hun......Distance create kar deta hun bohat xiada jin say bunti nahi hay ya jin say uljhan hoti hay. Zaberdusti ka saath bethna or baatain karna mushkil lagta hay.
Lakin main bilawaja ki Khaleefa-geeri nahi karta yeh ghalat, hay woh sahi hay....Etc. I think her bunday ki apni life hay Aur woh uss main jo karna chahay Aur jiss attitude say rehna chahay usay rehnay dena chaiyay.
Regards.
Gilay shikway share krnay say he khtam hotay hain, agr baar baar share krnay say bhi khtam nahi ho rahay or aik he cheez baar baar repeat hoti hay then agr aap adjust kr sktay hain tu pori koshish krain ignore krnay ki agr adjust nai kr sktay tu door ho jain. (Insan buhat flexible hay, agr committed ho tu hr baat adjust kr skta hay, n hr ghalat baat ko correct kr skta hay pyar say,agr wo khud pasand n anna parast nahi hay tu).
yehi kuch mainy b kehna tha jo k ciapk ny keh dia (but ye rule khas ul khas k liey he hota hai )...n hona b chahye) n for aam ppl yasir wala rule lagu hota hai )
Haan haan sahi jaa rahi ho........Jo aam log hain un per humara rule chalwaa dia.......Aur khass logon k liay Ciapk ka rule............Theek hay bhai theek hay
Regards.
Agreed Wardah -) waisay aam k liay bhi koshish ki ja skti hay apnay apnay zarf k mutabiq.
Abb kya koshish.......Saari koshishain abb aglay saal karnaa........Aaam ka season tu khatam hi hogya hay abb.
Regards.
hahahhaa @yasir mujhy aam bohat pasand hain.
@ciapk....u r rite but aam logon sy hum itna expect bhi to ni na krty as gily shikway b ziada unhi sy hotay hain jinko hum mean krty hain jinsy expect krtay hain jin py maan hota hai ) is kr k aam logon py yasir ka rule hi lago hoga.
i dont express gilay shikway.. i just let it go.. i dont mind much.. but at some point it does get on my nerves and i clearly ask the person to stop doing the particular act.. i usually request three times.. then ya tu phadda.. ya phir ignoring.. as the case may be..
I just ignore those persons jin se mujeh gila hota hai otherwise mein khod hi un se separate ho jati hun.