What qualities u want ur spouse to have/not have?

sensible · 02-10-2010, 03:28 PM

yaaaaar rabia is right, mutual understanding honi chahiey na, she dint mean k wo sunay uski sirf, she means gulz tou already sunti hain lekin boys ko bhio sunni chahiey na, hamaisha apna bharam nai dikhana chahiey.... agar mera hubby aesa hoga tou next day dhakka day kar bahar nikal dunge

lolx

rabia-k · 02-10-2010, 03:30 PM

if a man can demand all these qualities from his wife, why can't a wife do so too?

Ajnabi, mere ghar pe SERVANT ki jaga khali hai, naukri karni hai lolzz??

rabia-k · 02-10-2010, 03:36 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by Ajnabi
 <blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by Ali RAZA
 <blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by rabia-k
 1. tolerant ..i have a short temper and not much patience.

2. listen to me. he should listen to me when i am talking . i don't want to discuss my feelings and thoughts with someone who is not even listening to me.

3. i would want to hear a "YES" from him more often than a "NO"!

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tumha husband ki nahi servant ki zaroorat hay..[D]
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Aisa to aaj kal servants bhe nahi karte, [p]
Aj kal aisay husbands ko "Juru ka Gulam", "Zan Mureed" or begairat jesay alqab say nawaza jata hai...

sorry to say Rabia, lakin aisee larkiyon say Allah sab ko Bachaiy...[8D]
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sorry to say ajnabi, tum jaise mardon ko biwi nahi GHULAM ki zaroorat hoti hai.

Ajnabi · 02-10-2010, 03:41 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by rabia-k
 <blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by Ajnabi
 <blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by Ali RAZA
 <blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by rabia-k
 1. tolerant ..i have a short temper and not much patience.

2. listen to me. he should listen to me when i am talking . i don't want to discuss my feelings and thoughts with someone who is not even listening to me.

3. i would want to hear a "YES" from him more often than a "NO"!

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tumha husband ki nahi servant ki zaroorat hay..[D]
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Aisa to aaj kal servants bhe nahi karte, [p]
Aj kal aisay husbands ko "Juru ka Gulam", "Zan Mureed" or begairat jesay alqab say nawaza jata hai...

sorry to say Rabia, lakin aisee larkiyon say Allah sab ko Bachaiy...[8D]
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sorry to say ajnabi, tum jaise mardon ko biwi nahi GHULAM ki zaroorat hoti hai.<hr height="1" noshade id="quote"></blockquote id="quote">

Han sahi bat hai, even lakh rupay ki bat ki hai ap nay[8D]
To phir kia irrada hai apka?[)]

Ajnabi · 02-10-2010, 03:47 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by sensible
 yaaaaar rabia is right, mutual understanding honi chahiey na, she dint mean k wo sunay uski sirf, she means gulz tou already sunti hain lekin boys ko bhio sunni chahiey na, hamaisha apna bharam nai dikhana chahiey.... agar mera hubby aesa hoga tou next day dhakka day kar bahar nikal dunge

lolx
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Sensible you are seems to be quite sensible, lakin aisa hubby agar apka hoga aur ap nay aisee koi bat ki, i mean dhakkay marnay wali to mamla ulta bhe ho sakta hai!

Boys jab suntay hain to girls sir pay char k baith jatee hain, this teases me alot, aisee larkiyon ko main apnay doston k hawalay kar deta hon - hahah [8D], just joking

rabia-k · 02-10-2010, 03:49 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by Ajnabi

To phir kia irrada hai apka?[)]
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abhi to batay tha ajnabi , servant ki job pe rakhna apne ghar pe [D][D][D]

WARDAH · 02-10-2010, 04:10 PM

@AJNABI n RABIA. . .aik dosry py faltu k hmly krna bnd kro.or Rabia tumhari itni post prh chuki hun main u seems a gud grl to kham kha kio faltu ki behs mai pr rahi ho yar.tumhara mtlb smjh chuki hun but the way u post us say first time lgta yehi hai k equality ni hai.so leave it yar.
@SENSIBLE. . .tum ny bohat thek baat ki rabia ki post ko lay k bt tum SENSIBLE bat krty krty UNSENSIBLE hogain ye keh kr k main dhky dy k nikal dun.yar aisa kahan hota hai.ye sb shadi say pehly lrky lrkion ki bhrkain hoti hain.aik tum thori na relate hogi puri family relate hoti hai dosri family say.tum josh mai keh gain smjhti hun but thek nahin kaha dear.

sensible · 02-10-2010, 04:19 PM

i know aesa nai hota dhaka marna is more like a metaphr..lol

yaar wot mean is dat k agar aesa bharam baaz hubby mera hoga tou meri tou kbhi nai banay gi, shadi daikh k and bht soch samajh k karni chahiey, meri poori firm main atleast aaj tak mjhay koi bharam nai dikha saka even not my partner, so u shud realize main kaisi hun, her insaan apni jagah sahi hota ha, so apko apka match mil hi jata ha, saray boys aik jaisay nai hotay

Ajnabi · 02-10-2010, 04:27 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by WARDAH
 @AJNABI n RABIA. . .aik dosry py faltu k hmly krna bnd kro.or Rabia tumhari itni post prh chuki hun main u seems a gud grl to kham kha kio faltu ki behs mai pr rahi ho yar.tumhara mtlb smjh chuki hun but the way u post us say first time lgta yehi hai k equality ni hai.so leave it yar.
@SENSIBLE. . .tum ny bohat thek baat ki rabia ki post ko lay k bt tum SENSIBLE bat krty krty UNSENSIBLE hogain ye keh kr k main dhky dy k nikal dun.yar aisa kahan hota hai.ye sb shadi say pehly lrky lrkion ki bhrkain hoti hain.aik tum thori na relate hogi puri family relate hoti hai dosri family say.tum josh mai keh gain smjhti hun but thek nahin kaha dear.
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Wardah, soo soonar ki aur aik lohar ki hoti hai....
may nay sirf apnay comments diye hain, dusra agar galat bat karay ga to no one is under any impression is bound here to act on what others say,

Wesay mujhay Rabia aur Sensible say koi shakiyat nahi hai....
Matter has been clarified now.

WARDAH · 02-10-2010, 04:29 PM

@SENSIBLE. . .han yar ye or sensible baat ki tum ny.apko ap jaisa mil hi jata hai na mily to phdy pngy hi hotay rehtay hain.Atitude to mujh mai bhi hai but jaisa tum keh rahi ho waisa bilkul ni.or shadi bht soch smjh k krni to chahiye but naseeb mai kia likha hai kisko pta.kbhi kbhi ap jo sochty ya plan kertay hain us k braks hi hota hai.but my all prayers r with u.[)]

sensible · 02-10-2010, 04:35 PM

thanx wardah,, but kabhi kabhi nai hamaisha wohi hota ha jo hum nai sochtay,,INSAAN APNAY IRADOON KI NAQAMI SAY HI APNAY RAB KO PEHCHANTA HA

WARDAH · 02-10-2010, 04:36 PM

@AJNABI. . .gr koi aik thora track say ht jae to zrori nahin hai k ap b wohi kam krny lg parain.or jo words ap nay use kiay wo thek nahin lgtay seemed harsh.forum py thora dhyan rkhna chahye.any how ab further behs k gr mala thek hogya hai to its gud.now no attack any more [)]
REGARDS
WARDAH

Ajnabi · 02-10-2010, 04:56 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by WARDAH
 @AJNABI. . .gr koi aik thora track say ht jae to zrori nahin hai k ap b wohi kam krny lg parain.or jo words ap nay use kiay wo thek nahin lgtay seemed harsh.forum py thora dhyan rkhna chahye.any how ab further behs k gr mala thek hogya hai to its gud.now no attack any more [)]
REGARDS
WARDAH
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"Zulm Sehna us say bhe bara zulm hota hai khud k liye"
Khair, as far as the topic is concerned,
Girl should respect her husband unless situation becomes worst.
Agar girls apnay husband aur us k parents ki respect karay ge to husband zaroor khush rahay ga.

Sensible, hota wohi hai jo Allah ki marzi hoti hai, Allah ko hasil kar lo to us ki marzi apki tabay ho jaye ge..
Yanee Ap Allah ki maan lain , Allah aap ki maan lega - This has practally been observed by me in my life.

Ajnabi · 02-10-2010, 05:00 PM

<blockquote id="quote">quote<hr height="1" noshade id="quote">Originally posted by Ajnabi
 [quote]Originally posted by WARDAH
 @AJNABI. . .gr koi aik thora track say ht jae to zrori nahin hai k ap b wohi kam krny lg parain.or jo words ap nay use kiay wo thek nahin lgtay seemed harsh.forum py thora dhyan rkhna chahye.any how ab further behs k gr mala thek hogya hai to its gud.now no attack any more [)]
REGARDS
WARDAH
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"Zulm Sehna us say bhe bara zulm hota hai khud k liye"
Khair, as far as the topic is concerned,
Girl should respect her husband unless situation becomes worst.
Agar girls apnay husband aur us k parents ki respect karay ge to husband zaroor khush rahay ga aur jab wo khush rahay ga to apko khush rakhayga, provided that wo jahil na ho aur achay buray ki tameez rakhta ho...

Sensible, hota wohi hai jo Allah ki marzi hoti hai, Allah ko hasil kar lo to us ki marzi apki tabay ho jaye ge..
Yanee Ap Allah ki maan lain , Allah aap ki maan lega - This has practally been observed by me in my life.

sensible · 02-10-2010, 05:03 PM

yeah i know very well ajnabi "those who joyfully give everything in ALLAH'S hands will eventually see ALLAH's hand in everything"