How to know if someone is sincere to you or not??

[ayaz1]

Hi,

I would like your opinion about how can we figure out if someone we care about is also sincere to us in the same way and is not cheating on us???

[arsenal.gooner]

is ka jawab agar kisi ke paas hota to na breakups hota, naa log sharaab ke nashay mein doobtay -)

[WARDAH]

daikho ye cheez test ni ki jaskti iski zrort bhi ni hai.bs tum apna dil saaf rkho,tum khud sincere rho pyar sy khyal rkho to mujhy yaqeen hai k wo tumko decieve kr hi ni sky ga agr bndy ka putr ya putri(female version) hui us k liey bhi usko ds dfa sochna pry ga.

[raza 123]

yar................. very tough question !

[ciapk]

Aik chehray pay kai chehray saja laitay hain loog -) pani maar k makeup utaaro or asli chehra daikh lo. -). 6th sense sy guess ho jata hay agr kisi ki baqi hay tu -)

[WARDAH]

ciapk. . . is mai kahin sy six sense kaam ni ati my dear.

[Anamz1]

Yes really we can,t judge bus jo sahe ho jata hai wo feel ho jata hai aur us main Allah pak bhe hamari madad farmata hai, but har ceez har relation wakti hota hai, thoray ya ziada arsy baad khatam ho jata hai, kuch log khud kar daity hain, kuch Allah kr daita hai un ko maar ky.

[WARDAH]

anum khair hai? itni khofnaak batain!!

[ciapk]

Pta nai mri tu krti hy kam akser -)

[WARDAH]

AYAZ. . . ager tum hunko puri kahani sunao to hum tumko thek thek bta skty hain.aazmaish shart hai.hehehe

[ayaz1]

Thanks Wardah for the detailed reply.. waqae ye chez measure to nahi ki ja sakti and its hard to tell, but sometime we get some sort of clues from the others in differet ways like "i was busy at that time" or "aj kal time nahi milta" etc etc. But i agree with u in that we should remain fair on our part.. Well koi aisi kahani to nahi hai bus generally puhca hai becoz this question comes in our minds many times in life and in different capacities.... ho sakta hai hamare experiences or views share karne se is baray me kuch idea ho jae...[)]

[WARDAH]

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm in jumlon ki basis py kisin ki sincerety measure ni ja skti dear.daikh0o in jumlon k pichy to boht sy reason ho skty hain kia pta waqai bz ho,kia pta uska mood thek na ho kuch space chahta ho,kia pta tumhary itna close na ho or shareb na krna chahta ho apni koi tension to bz ka keh k space liya ho ta k tum py asr na ho,but waisy us k dil mai tumhary liey koi burai ya negativity na ho.kia pta tum logon ki dosti ho but itni understanding or closeness na ho vary to relation to relation n person to person.us k aik hl hai agr to tumhary dil mai sincerety or khyal just being friend hai to khair hai aisy hi chlty jao or gr koi opposite gender hai or dosti k ilawa bhi kuch or hai tumhari trf sy to stb farward bol do.ta k tum clear ho jao agay uski mrzi.wo tumko kaisy ly k chly then us k us raviye sy tum asani sy jaan jao gy k what other person want n what ur status in her life.or kuch janna ho to pochna ) aj k liey i think itna kafi hai.

[bizmen]

mera khayal hai keh agar kisi keh dil mein yeh sawal aaye to usay sab se pehlay apne aap se question karna chahiye keh kya woh khud sincere hai? because I personally feel keh agar aap sincere hote hain to aap ke dil mein is tarah keh sawal nahee aate. When you TRUST someone, TRUST him/her. Trust ya to 'total trust' hota hai ya bilkul nahee hota, yeh 'thora bohat' ya 'kuch kuch' trust nahee hota.

[WARDAH]

all buddies. . . share ur comments here as me taking it up due to that rubbish golf man.

[bizmen]

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