07-22-2007, 03:27 PM
Good Morning to all of you.....
I am back after enjoying a good weekend. I know your's weekend has just started. Wish you really good days ahead.
AFter morning wishes first of all let me tell Mr. Imran and Mr. Kamran that do not start this Lal Masjid discussion under this topic. Nahin tou spanking must hai aap dono kee. Also i would say here that we had enough discussed this topic. Conclusion is the universal one. That's Extremism cannnot be appreciated in any way and by any one, Govt or Public. All of us are agreed on one more point that Ghazi brothers were may be right with their demands but the way they adopted was not at all right. And that is why so many got killed. Govt. action was also most unexpected from them and i can say safely that she did a bigger mistake. Anyway it seems that now its Govt's turn to compensate and pay the price for all the killings she has been doing througout the country. So just wait and see as you must have heard and read in books that "Khuda kee laathi be-awaaz hothi hai."
Now let me come to the original topice. Mr. Kamran is very expressive i must say but he say a simple thing in much complicated way. Well this may not be every one's opinion but its just what i feel now after talking to him in detail on some of issues. Anyway i dont mean that he should change his style for me, but still would suggest that in our country people understand things in simpler ways. Have you ever been a teacher?
In my last post under this thread i did not dinied anything from Mr. Kamran's post but i just tried to look at the issue with a different angle. And i did so because this is something getting common in our culture. Love is either for physical interests or for wealth purpose. Real love is getting unique day by day.
Creation of love is something we are not discussing here. Its as natural and as reflexive as heart beat. You do not have any control on it. It happens when it is meant to be. AS far as Mr. Kamran 's point is concerned that why it doesnt happen with a poor guy in a hut. I will say that somewhere, often directly and seldom indirectly, your life style effects your feelings. Your environment where you are brought up, set a standard of life infront of you. And you start looking at everything and picking up everything for yourself according to that standard. In this way you kind of maintain your life style. For instance a labor working in my house yard, may be very good at heart and even good looking too, but it will hardly make me fall for him. YOu know its not that he is poor, its something natural build up in your body (may be by default) that you wont even think about it. But as you confess that exceptions are there, so there are definitely rare cases. Over here in UAE lot of Arab local ladies have affairs with their Pakistani drivers. I will avoid going to the details of those reasons that cause such affaris coz it will divert me from the topic.
So baat yeh hai ke jo standard aap ko by birth mill jaata hai, you start following that unconciously. This standard of life includes the selection of your love too. And i will like to say one more thing here that love with a person who doesnt match with your standard, hardly works out. On some point of your life, you say or realise that you made a mistake.
<b>Miss Cool Lioness
It very difficult for me to realize that without getting familier to some one and without seeing some one how can you love him. Any way what he did to you that was totally unfair and such person cannot deserve love.</b>
Mr. Imran its a long story. i always avoided to disclose it becuase it only hurts me and reminds me that i am the most stupid person on the face of earth (may be i should be given national award of stupidness). Kher baat yeh hai ke, you should know that love is blind ( i hate this saying now after experiencing it.) I mentioned it earlier that first of all the guy got my sympathies. How??????? He told me that he was suffering with sever sickness where the chances for his survival were minimum. This was disclosed to me by him after 4-5 months of our friendship (Promise it was just a friendship from my side. that is why i never bothered to ask him his tel numbers or addresses or pics etc). In this way slowly slowly i got attached to him and started prayers for his life day and night. As i belive that Prayers can change the destinies, i did not leave any stone unturned to prove this saying right. Manatain, duaain, Khairaat, Sadqa, mid night prayers, kiya nahin kiya mein ne. Side by side I would try to keep him as happy as maximum as i could. Changed, rather broke, my rules for his happiness sake. The only motive in my mind was to give him hope for life, to give him some moments of happiness, some moments that he can cherish when he is alone lying on his hospital bed. His sickness was not the only reason for my love. It was his intellact, way of discribing things, loving words that he would say for me, the respect he would show for me. Who doesnt like to be loved? or to be respected? To be cared or to be given importance?
Anyway i need to close it now. I dont want to waste my tears for him any more. He doesnt deserve anything from me now.[(!]
I am back after enjoying a good weekend. I know your's weekend has just started. Wish you really good days ahead.
AFter morning wishes first of all let me tell Mr. Imran and Mr. Kamran that do not start this Lal Masjid discussion under this topic. Nahin tou spanking must hai aap dono kee. Also i would say here that we had enough discussed this topic. Conclusion is the universal one. That's Extremism cannnot be appreciated in any way and by any one, Govt or Public. All of us are agreed on one more point that Ghazi brothers were may be right with their demands but the way they adopted was not at all right. And that is why so many got killed. Govt. action was also most unexpected from them and i can say safely that she did a bigger mistake. Anyway it seems that now its Govt's turn to compensate and pay the price for all the killings she has been doing througout the country. So just wait and see as you must have heard and read in books that "Khuda kee laathi be-awaaz hothi hai."
Now let me come to the original topice. Mr. Kamran is very expressive i must say but he say a simple thing in much complicated way. Well this may not be every one's opinion but its just what i feel now after talking to him in detail on some of issues. Anyway i dont mean that he should change his style for me, but still would suggest that in our country people understand things in simpler ways. Have you ever been a teacher?
In my last post under this thread i did not dinied anything from Mr. Kamran's post but i just tried to look at the issue with a different angle. And i did so because this is something getting common in our culture. Love is either for physical interests or for wealth purpose. Real love is getting unique day by day.
Creation of love is something we are not discussing here. Its as natural and as reflexive as heart beat. You do not have any control on it. It happens when it is meant to be. AS far as Mr. Kamran 's point is concerned that why it doesnt happen with a poor guy in a hut. I will say that somewhere, often directly and seldom indirectly, your life style effects your feelings. Your environment where you are brought up, set a standard of life infront of you. And you start looking at everything and picking up everything for yourself according to that standard. In this way you kind of maintain your life style. For instance a labor working in my house yard, may be very good at heart and even good looking too, but it will hardly make me fall for him. YOu know its not that he is poor, its something natural build up in your body (may be by default) that you wont even think about it. But as you confess that exceptions are there, so there are definitely rare cases. Over here in UAE lot of Arab local ladies have affairs with their Pakistani drivers. I will avoid going to the details of those reasons that cause such affaris coz it will divert me from the topic.
So baat yeh hai ke jo standard aap ko by birth mill jaata hai, you start following that unconciously. This standard of life includes the selection of your love too. And i will like to say one more thing here that love with a person who doesnt match with your standard, hardly works out. On some point of your life, you say or realise that you made a mistake.
<b>Miss Cool Lioness
It very difficult for me to realize that without getting familier to some one and without seeing some one how can you love him. Any way what he did to you that was totally unfair and such person cannot deserve love.</b>
Mr. Imran its a long story. i always avoided to disclose it becuase it only hurts me and reminds me that i am the most stupid person on the face of earth (may be i should be given national award of stupidness). Kher baat yeh hai ke, you should know that love is blind ( i hate this saying now after experiencing it.) I mentioned it earlier that first of all the guy got my sympathies. How??????? He told me that he was suffering with sever sickness where the chances for his survival were minimum. This was disclosed to me by him after 4-5 months of our friendship (Promise it was just a friendship from my side. that is why i never bothered to ask him his tel numbers or addresses or pics etc). In this way slowly slowly i got attached to him and started prayers for his life day and night. As i belive that Prayers can change the destinies, i did not leave any stone unturned to prove this saying right. Manatain, duaain, Khairaat, Sadqa, mid night prayers, kiya nahin kiya mein ne. Side by side I would try to keep him as happy as maximum as i could. Changed, rather broke, my rules for his happiness sake. The only motive in my mind was to give him hope for life, to give him some moments of happiness, some moments that he can cherish when he is alone lying on his hospital bed. His sickness was not the only reason for my love. It was his intellact, way of discribing things, loving words that he would say for me, the respect he would show for me. Who doesnt like to be loved? or to be respected? To be cared or to be given importance?
Anyway i need to close it now. I dont want to waste my tears for him any more. He doesnt deserve anything from me now.[(!]
