07-30-2007, 12:04 AM
I am really sorry to read all of the above. And then we say that we are not extremists. This is the mistake all of us are making. Killing each other in the name of religion. Our religion has got such softness in it that itâs each word make you spell bound. There is no need at all to argue like that. Why getting so personal Mr. Amir? And Mr. imran I thought you were quite sensible (anyway thanks that you realised it soon). If you people have different views about a matter, does it mean that you people just start imposing it on each other? You explained your view; Kamran did it in his own way. Try to convince each other with reasons and facts.
I know Mr. Kamran has kind of rigid and extreme view about some of the issues. He makes the whole world responsible for the mistake of few numbers of people. His thoughts are based on his life experiences. Today if he thinks all Pathans are same that is because he has seen few bad examples (new to me atleast though i am Pathan too) in his own locality. Tomorrow may be he will change his view totally after seeing some one from same tribe doing something amazing. This is life. It shows you various and various things, each time with different angle. Our duty is to keep our sight vast and open to explore the truth and not hurry to make our point of view. Until a certain point of life, none of us can make an accurate or precise decision about anything. One should always remember that there are always exceptions and not all fingers are alike. Always keep the doors of hope open with yourself. By force, by calling names, by cursing each other, you will only increase the hate. You can make the other person stronger in his wrong believes with your wrong behavior. Leave him if one is not willing to understand. Your duty was to express yourself. You expressed what you thought was right. At least Mr. Kamran has read it. That means you have already done the most important task of conveying your message to him. And I believe he is enough sensible that if he ever stumbled across the reality he will accept it and would change his views.
For Mr. Kamran I will advice or suggest that keep yourself a bit flexible. No one is perfect, so are you. No one of us knows whatâs going on inside our politics and who the actual people behind all these terrorist acts are. Then why to create differences and hatred among us for those people who doesnât deserve anything from us? You have your bad experience with Pathans, we have their good impression on us. If we are admitting that ok there must be some elements causing the problems but not whole Pathan qoum is like them then you should also admit it with open heart because it is the truth. Same goes for Ulema e Deen. We definitely have the genuine Ulemaâs among us and they are definitely dominating in number.
Regards
I know Mr. Kamran has kind of rigid and extreme view about some of the issues. He makes the whole world responsible for the mistake of few numbers of people. His thoughts are based on his life experiences. Today if he thinks all Pathans are same that is because he has seen few bad examples (new to me atleast though i am Pathan too) in his own locality. Tomorrow may be he will change his view totally after seeing some one from same tribe doing something amazing. This is life. It shows you various and various things, each time with different angle. Our duty is to keep our sight vast and open to explore the truth and not hurry to make our point of view. Until a certain point of life, none of us can make an accurate or precise decision about anything. One should always remember that there are always exceptions and not all fingers are alike. Always keep the doors of hope open with yourself. By force, by calling names, by cursing each other, you will only increase the hate. You can make the other person stronger in his wrong believes with your wrong behavior. Leave him if one is not willing to understand. Your duty was to express yourself. You expressed what you thought was right. At least Mr. Kamran has read it. That means you have already done the most important task of conveying your message to him. And I believe he is enough sensible that if he ever stumbled across the reality he will accept it and would change his views.
For Mr. Kamran I will advice or suggest that keep yourself a bit flexible. No one is perfect, so are you. No one of us knows whatâs going on inside our politics and who the actual people behind all these terrorist acts are. Then why to create differences and hatred among us for those people who doesnât deserve anything from us? You have your bad experience with Pathans, we have their good impression on us. If we are admitting that ok there must be some elements causing the problems but not whole Pathan qoum is like them then you should also admit it with open heart because it is the truth. Same goes for Ulema e Deen. We definitely have the genuine Ulemaâs among us and they are definitely dominating in number.
Regards
