04-23-2008, 10:27 PM
Dears,
Inferiority complex is basically the problem of those who always tend to adopt the cultural, social, religious and other values of the others without having analyzed the merits and de-merits in a given environment. Islam says that "Hikmat ke baat moman kee gumshuda meeraas hai" but for meeting this criteria the BAAT should be of HIKMAT. It must not be "BHAID CHAAL" or needless inspiration from other nations without considering what priviliges our own values have and how much efficiently we can make our ownselves presentable in the worldwide scenario. We can apply this guidance on both spirtual as well as worldly issues becoz for us nothing two criterias are there to make such decisions differently.
In my view ICAEW, ACCA or any other foreign institution may have developed certain things in which we are behind them. We should try to know it by studying, discussing and exploring. We can even get to have such education / qualification, for knowledge, prominance or elevation purpose. The theme behind doing this should be explicit and purposeful.
Doing such things due to failure in certain area/field/qualification does not meet such criteria. I always said who makes a decision of his own to have such qualification, it's good for him. But whoever, who do so due to failure in CA and then make allegation on policies of ICAP by the reason of sour grapes is not praisable for any reason. Moreover, advocating such things merely becoz one has some specific interests is also strange thing. We should be fair enough to accept what is real and what exists. How much we debate to support what is expected to exist. Why not we accept what exists? Is it not strange? Does not it show some sort of complex?
So this can, if focussed, portray the true picture of people who are in inferiority complex.
The other issue of superiority complex has also been discussed in some of above posts. The people having inferiority complex always feel that the better ones have such complex. This is just a feeling of those who are in inferiority complex. In fact nothing like this happens. This could be a matter of self aspiration but there exists no such complex in fact. This is the by-product of inferiority complex.
I also wish to make it clear that it is a forum for open dicussion, explosring merits and demarits for new comers etc and no one is degrading the other. Nothing is a professional opinion given on the letter head of a qualified professional. Further, how funny is to make a comparison of so-called "advanced nations" on such issues. What not and what not they do on their media and forums. The whole muslim world cannot push such nations even for one inch on the issues of blasphemy while their masses know such things are worst at their part. Of which nations such people are inspired of and are talking about their character.
Every thing has a sphere of relevance and every sphere has to be adjudged differently. A man who is a police man should not be in such role at his home. A man who is a professional can go beyond limitations on private places and specially where he does not give his identity.
The vague statements and conclusions depict the mental situation. This is just like the thing where some one was pointed out to be calling the others for his help in a critical debate. Although he did not accept, he was doing so.
I must say we should endeavor to remain within the perspective for which the discussion is going on. It would be good to make a good debate for common knowledge building and knowing each other through such debates.
No one here is going to judge the abilities in person by making identifications. Rather, it is purposed at to explore which opportunity is better in a given environment, what should be the objective/goal, what attitude our common students have towards their objectives, how / why some one is de-tracked from his main goal etc.
Definitely every one can have different opinion and basis to conclude the things.
However, no one can fly beyond the limits of the skies. It has to be a limitation. We just have to know the limits.
Regards,
KAMRAN.
