06-30-2010, 04:17 PM
Self Respect
I do believe keh self respect is always there irrespective of the emotional, teen agers, love birds standards keh jo bhi hai humara hai na keh mera ya tumhara. For example, if a girl asks permission for something and the man denies that. The girl might ask âwhy?â. Now if the man gives her a reason, thatâs fine but if he says âbecause I said soâ then I think keh us ne larki ki self respect ko majrooh kiya. Similarly, if a girl asks for something or permission for something in front of others, he might be affecting her self respect by denying to give permission or give something. But yeh mostly nature of relation par depend karta hai. For example if a girl asks for money in front of others and he denies or asks âwhat for?â he may or may not be hitting her self respect depending on the situation, environment or nature of relationship with those others. Larki ko normally in-laws ke samne denial itna feel nahee hota jitna keh us ke makay walon keh samne because she naturally wishes to prove to her family how much her husband takes care of her and fulfills all her wishes.
I do believe keh self respect is always there irrespective of the emotional, teen agers, love birds standards keh jo bhi hai humara hai na keh mera ya tumhara. For example, if a girl asks permission for something and the man denies that. The girl might ask âwhy?â. Now if the man gives her a reason, thatâs fine but if he says âbecause I said soâ then I think keh us ne larki ki self respect ko majrooh kiya. Similarly, if a girl asks for something or permission for something in front of others, he might be affecting her self respect by denying to give permission or give something. But yeh mostly nature of relation par depend karta hai. For example if a girl asks for money in front of others and he denies or asks âwhat for?â he may or may not be hitting her self respect depending on the situation, environment or nature of relationship with those others. Larki ko normally in-laws ke samne denial itna feel nahee hota jitna keh us ke makay walon keh samne because she naturally wishes to prove to her family how much her husband takes care of her and fulfills all her wishes.
