09-16-2010, 04:44 PM
Yasir
We all are answerable for whatever we do and whatever we say and I am not a judge on any one's sayings and doings. I just called your attention to a fact and if you knowingly don't want to understand then what can be done.
We cannot use a word like "beyghairat" for the things, deeds and acts that Allah has taught us specifically and that the Prophet PBUH has not only taught us but also practiced himself. (Naoozbiillah). The west raises similar objections on Muslims and our Prophet PBUH for this very incident that was in fact as per Allah's will and Quranic order. Hazrat Zaid Bin Haris R.A. was a salve of the Prophet PBUH who was adopted by him as a son. He (R.A.) divorced his wife Hazrat Zainab R.A. and the Prophet PBUH afterwards married her. There is no permission to marry the divorced wife of a real son; but Allah eliminated the misconception of similar rule for the Adopted Sons (in fact for all Munh Bolay Rishtay).
Allah's divine wisdom decided for all the times to come through Quranic verses that Munh Bolay (adopted) relations have no reality for any one and that the limits have only been defined by Allah. This was extremely necessary to eliminate the Bida'ats we human beings cultivate by our own wrong doings. If someone (e.g. west) does not understand or establish faith on Allah's commandments, then we are only asked to explain the situation.
I don't find anything hard to understand what I pointed out. Even if you used this word for yourself when we are discussing that "Munh Bolay Rishtay ke Islam main koi Ehmiyet nahi", this is very indecent because it is exactly opposite to the Quran's guidance.
We may be cracking jokes on each other or making fun as such within allowed boundaries of moral values; yet, we should always limit our comments where Allah's commandments are quoted unless we have some valid and reliable interpretation or explanation.
I have explained my viewpoint, and due to my disliking of the words used, wish not to be dragged further in discussion on this issue.
Regards,
We all are answerable for whatever we do and whatever we say and I am not a judge on any one's sayings and doings. I just called your attention to a fact and if you knowingly don't want to understand then what can be done.
We cannot use a word like "beyghairat" for the things, deeds and acts that Allah has taught us specifically and that the Prophet PBUH has not only taught us but also practiced himself. (Naoozbiillah). The west raises similar objections on Muslims and our Prophet PBUH for this very incident that was in fact as per Allah's will and Quranic order. Hazrat Zaid Bin Haris R.A. was a salve of the Prophet PBUH who was adopted by him as a son. He (R.A.) divorced his wife Hazrat Zainab R.A. and the Prophet PBUH afterwards married her. There is no permission to marry the divorced wife of a real son; but Allah eliminated the misconception of similar rule for the Adopted Sons (in fact for all Munh Bolay Rishtay).
Allah's divine wisdom decided for all the times to come through Quranic verses that Munh Bolay (adopted) relations have no reality for any one and that the limits have only been defined by Allah. This was extremely necessary to eliminate the Bida'ats we human beings cultivate by our own wrong doings. If someone (e.g. west) does not understand or establish faith on Allah's commandments, then we are only asked to explain the situation.
I don't find anything hard to understand what I pointed out. Even if you used this word for yourself when we are discussing that "Munh Bolay Rishtay ke Islam main koi Ehmiyet nahi", this is very indecent because it is exactly opposite to the Quran's guidance.
We may be cracking jokes on each other or making fun as such within allowed boundaries of moral values; yet, we should always limit our comments where Allah's commandments are quoted unless we have some valid and reliable interpretation or explanation.
I have explained my viewpoint, and due to my disliking of the words used, wish not to be dragged further in discussion on this issue.
Regards,
