07-19-2007, 09:05 PM
Yes i am highly in favor of moral restrictions in such affairs. These restrictions only makes your relationship stronger. Also it helps you alot in understanding each other. If you get yourself indulged in physical attractions and desires only, i can bet you dont get the chance to think about other aspects of this affair, consequences of such relation and above all you fail to understand your partner fully. Physical attraction is like a blind fold on your eyes. Once you get married, within few months you start feeling that this person is not the same guy you knew before marriage. And same the other party (your partner) thinks about you. Actually both are same but after marriage, now when their all physical desires are so easily approchable, they are least bothered about it. As a result the blind fold starts getting off from your eyes and you start looking around yourself more clearly. Then you realize that may be you have made a mistake by selecting a wrong person. But as they say, It is useless to cry over spilt milk.
So my advice to every one here, and who so ever read this is kindly do not ever go for physical relationship in your love affair. Rather try to understand the person before you make him/her your life partner and not jump into staisfying those wishes which will come true anyway once you get married.
The same attitude is expected from us by our religion also, which is ofcourse for our good.
One thing i will clarify here that physical relationship doesnt mean only the extreme stage but all those activities, where your body, is physically involved and that can provok the devil inside you. That includes taking hand in hands, sitting very closely side by side etc etc. ( i think i should not go in much details since every one here is much mature.)[)]
So my advice to every one here, and who so ever read this is kindly do not ever go for physical relationship in your love affair. Rather try to understand the person before you make him/her your life partner and not jump into staisfying those wishes which will come true anyway once you get married.
The same attitude is expected from us by our religion also, which is ofcourse for our good.
One thing i will clarify here that physical relationship doesnt mean only the extreme stage but all those activities, where your body, is physically involved and that can provok the devil inside you. That includes taking hand in hands, sitting very closely side by side etc etc. ( i think i should not go in much details since every one here is much mature.)[)]
