07-14-2010, 10:05 PM
Mumtaz Mufti once referred in his novel from a book named âTHEY AND Iâ that itâs the woman who in real is the ruler at home as she always have full support of her children whenever the issue is between her and her husband. She decides which relatives are good enough to be in touch with by her children (and mostly its her own family not her husbandâs family). She keeps children close enough to herself so that they may share every thing with her only and she intentionally raise her kids with fear of their father this fear never let the children come near to the father even after they get mature. And finally at end of life father is the person all alone at home mostly treated as useless even mindless person facing continues competitive situations made by his wife and âHERâ children and always blamed for his mistakes.
